Never knew "have my home complimented by teenage childs friends for being cozy" needed to be added to my bucket list but here we are. I deeply relate to this Sophie! And while I adore the quote "perfect is the enemy of good" I wonder if we can tack on something like "cringe is the enemy of connection" or vulnerability or whatever it means to be human. But just about every time someone says "I was worried I was too cringe" they're referring to something which *I* thought they were very cool and brave for sharing.
So beautifully said, Sophie! I really relate to these worries, but I love how clearly and beautifully you always articulate your thoughts and what you want. And I love that your daughter’s friends said that, it’s the same impression I get from your photos 🩷
I love the teenagers' compliments about your home feeling like such a HOME. I mean really, what more can we strive for? I'm just very upset I haven't gotten to visit yet! Thanks for sharing this, it's all so relatable. I often need to remind myself that perfect is the enemy of good. We can miss out on so much 'good' right in front of us, while holding out for the (imaginary) perfect. Xo
I think we have a similar house. It’s cozy with band posters, LP’s, books, and a mid century couch I patched up with big colourful flowers. I haven’t cared much about what people think of my things. I’ve always been hurt more due to being underestimate because I live and think differently than the masses. I strive for and cherish different things. I like who I am but it still hurts when people devalue my life, like I’m not as smart or successful because I don’t value status, money, or the big career. I’m glad the teens liked your house. They tend to like things that make them feel safe and your place must do that. :)
Thank you so much for this comment, Ani! Your couch (and home) sounds AMAZING. I’m learning to let go of other people’s expectations around the things I “should” value and embrace what I actually value, but you’re right, other people’s assumptions can be hurtful. Thank you for your kind words! ❤️❤️❤️
I fully expected your house to be a warm, welcoming home, because you are that way 💕💝 And I love so much that it was acknowledged for what your heart reflects 💕💝
Never knew "have my home complimented by teenage childs friends for being cozy" needed to be added to my bucket list but here we are. I deeply relate to this Sophie! And while I adore the quote "perfect is the enemy of good" I wonder if we can tack on something like "cringe is the enemy of connection" or vulnerability or whatever it means to be human. But just about every time someone says "I was worried I was too cringe" they're referring to something which *I* thought they were very cool and brave for sharing.
Yes, this too!!
I love this so much, Cara, and agree wholeheartedly! Thank you so much for reading and taking the time to comment. xoxo
So beautifully said, Sophie! I really relate to these worries, but I love how clearly and beautifully you always articulate your thoughts and what you want. And I love that your daughter’s friends said that, it’s the same impression I get from your photos 🩷
Thanks so much, dear friend! xo
I love the teenagers' compliments about your home feeling like such a HOME. I mean really, what more can we strive for? I'm just very upset I haven't gotten to visit yet! Thanks for sharing this, it's all so relatable. I often need to remind myself that perfect is the enemy of good. We can miss out on so much 'good' right in front of us, while holding out for the (imaginary) perfect. Xo
Ah, so so true! And yes, why haven't we been to each other's houses? It's WEIRD, frankly! 😘
I think we have a similar house. It’s cozy with band posters, LP’s, books, and a mid century couch I patched up with big colourful flowers. I haven’t cared much about what people think of my things. I’ve always been hurt more due to being underestimate because I live and think differently than the masses. I strive for and cherish different things. I like who I am but it still hurts when people devalue my life, like I’m not as smart or successful because I don’t value status, money, or the big career. I’m glad the teens liked your house. They tend to like things that make them feel safe and your place must do that. :)
Thank you so much for this comment, Ani! Your couch (and home) sounds AMAZING. I’m learning to let go of other people’s expectations around the things I “should” value and embrace what I actually value, but you’re right, other people’s assumptions can be hurtful. Thank you for your kind words! ❤️❤️❤️
Oh the compliment about the house 🥰🥹 that’s precious.
Yes to letting go.
Yes to sharing more.
Thanks, Lindsey!! Yes to letting go and sharing more!
Wait I LOVEEEE the voice over, it's like listening to a quick audiobook 💗
Thank you!! I don't have a real mic and just kind of go for it, haha, but I'm glad it does the trick!
I fully expected your house to be a warm, welcoming home, because you are that way 💕💝 And I love so much that it was acknowledged for what your heart reflects 💕💝
This is so sweet, thanks, Mere. xoxo